Thanksgiving at Kanawi

Yesterday we had our community Thanksgiving. Overall, it went really well. My parents decided to have dinner with my sister’s family, so they weren’t around this year. That’s cool. I was able to spend the day with people who are as much my family as those who are actually related to me. Both Danny and Garrett were around for dinner, and while it was still weird, it was a bit more comfortable than Halloween.

In the morning, before the kitchen became really crazy and guests began arriving, Tina and I made Jello together. I think that Jello at Thanksgiving is a little silly, but it’s a tradition here, and evidently lots of other places (Google “Thanksgiving Jello” without the quotes if you don’t believe me). Belle and Tina usually make it together, but Belle has been buried under mounds of grading. When I saw Tina starting to make it on her own, I volunteered my fabulous apple-chopping skills. And I really enjoyed having the opportunity to hang out with her.

Although we have communal meals every day and community meetings once a week (if not more), enough people live in Kanawi now that it’s hard to really know or spend a significant amount of time with everyone. I realized recently that my closest friends here are all male, and mostly lovers or former lovers. Thus, I’m trying to take opportunities to spend time one-on-one and in small groups with community members I don’t know as well, especially women. 


“The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other’s life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.” –Richard Bach  

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4 Responses to “Thanksgiving at Kanawi”

  1. belle Says:

    Thanksgiving Jello is NOT silly… and speaking of tradition, you guys didn’t even get the recipe right. Walnuts?! It is supposed to have pecans.

  2. hannah Says:

    Shake had used a bunch of the pecans, not realizing they were for the Jello. And I thought it was tasty with the walnuts.

  3. Belle Says:

    You would think your recipe was better, wouldn’t you? You just want to come in an hijack our tradition, just like you want to hijack Tina.

  4. hannah Says:

    Whoa. WTF? I’m not trying to hijack anything or anyone. I was trying to help out, since you were too busy grading to make Jello, and to get to know Tina better. What’s with all the anger and paranoia?